Dripping Patience…

I am far, far, far from where I am going to be as a man, father, husband, and person.

When I see something I want to change about me I ask the world to wait patiently until I get there.  Actually I demand it.  That’s pretty Andy-centric of me.

I figured something out this morning: I need to be patient with the people I care about as they wait for me to be a better me.  They want it as badly as I do…and they get frustrated.  Who am I to demand their patience…when I don’t give them mine in return?  Bad Andy. (But workin’ on it…)

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4 Responses to “Dripping Patience…”

  1. Meg Michaelson November 28, 2011 at 12:03 pm #

    Lovely, honest. Vulnerable. Thank you for sharing.

    • akoehn November 28, 2011 at 3:39 pm #

      Awww thanks, Meg. Good to “see” you! (I wrote this after I scrapped a bitchy one to certain people. That’s pretty honest too, I guess.) Hope all is well!

  2. agnes December 1, 2011 at 2:02 pm #

    After reading this I am wondering why we call patients (sick person) patients.

    • akoehn December 2, 2011 at 11:25 am #

      Whoa…that makes my head spin a little. I know it was rhetorical…but of course I like to answer. Maybe because THEY have to be so patient as the docs, nurses, us push them to get better. (And I know they try very hard to get there. For themselves…and of course us.)

      BTW: I’m trying to post shorter reads because of how you write. It’ll come…with a little patience. (Bad, self-serving, last sentence.)

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